tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2177051091363290480.post2521026416991668779..comments2023-11-03T17:32:35.792+08:00Comments on Pearls & Gem: Pearls & Gem : RedzaUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2177051091363290480.post-83220357315297217782009-01-27T21:07:00.000+08:002009-01-27T21:07:00.000+08:00I know it is painful .I have been there in a diffe...I know it is painful .I have been there in a different capacity not as parents but as a brother who 'could have made a difference '.That was what I erroneously thought .<BR/><BR/>We are tested all the time .The more Allah loves you the more you are tested .Accept and redza .Imsyallah that way you and your wife will not be at each other's throats for that apparent 'misdecision 'or indesicion .You would not know if your daughter had gone for the AVM coiling procedure that she could have thrown a major stroke on the table and both of you would end up with a brain damage child that would burden you forever : Another test .<BR/><BR/>Or she underwent the procedure very well become a brillaint student with 11 straight A's in the SPM ,went to UK and lo and behold 5 years later wrote back to papa and mama that she would rather follow the route of "Lina Joy' ! Another test on our faith .<BR/><BR/>Redza and get on with your lives .You have another beautiful daughter to bring up well .Take life a day at a time .You will be OK .The sufi is a child of the present ,says an old guru .There is a lot of wisdom there which mere mortals like you and me have to try to attain .<BR/><BR/>Insyaallah !Pearls and Gemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06956076197010527489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2177051091363290480.post-33426693923214368692009-01-27T10:59:00.000+08:002009-01-27T10:59:00.000+08:00Dr Nik,Just now only accessing your blog looking f...Dr Nik,<BR/><BR/>Just now only accessing your blog looking for article on "redha" as you requested, when I came across your blog which referred to a heart patient whose 11 year beloved daughter died. I am the patient. Yes,one must accept death as Allah's destiny when He took my beloved daughter to be under His care. I am comforted that she is assured of Heaven as she is still not "baligh" but I do wonder in "alam barzakh" if she longed for his mama/papa and that her roh may blamed me for procastinating to get her further treated. Semoga Allah cucuri rahmat atas rohnya.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com